Showing posts with label Dichotomy of Control. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dichotomy of Control. Show all posts

Tuesday, 10 February 2026

Remaining Stoic When Swimming

 


Swimming has many benefits for both our physical and mental health. That is quite clear and beyond debate. For me, however, I want to take the benefits of swimming one step further: it provides me with an opportunity to train my Stoic mindset.

It was only in my adult life that I developed an affinity for swimming. In fact, just a few years ago, I did not know how to swim at all.

Deep water was an object of fear for me. But after gathering my courage, I decided to face that fear and began taking swimming lessons. Even now that I can swim decently, the familiar anxious feeling of possibly drowning still sneaks up on me from time to time.

Despite my fear of deep water, however, I have gradually developed a genuine affinity for swimming. It has become a passion of mine — so much so that my swimming sessions often determine my mood.

If a practice goes well, my mood is lifted. But if, for some reason, the session does not go as I had hoped, I cannot help but feel deflated. In any case, I remain determined to work hard so that my swimming skills continue to improve.

In both respects — conquering my fear and improving my skills — the philosophy of Stoicism has played, and continues to play, a crucial role.

Sunday, 25 January 2026

Control the controllable? But what can we control?

 


Do not waste your time, energy, and resources on the things you cannot control. Instead, focus on the things you can control. The ancient Stoics call this the Dichotomy of Control. This is perhaps the best advice I have ever received: control the controllable.

At first glance, this seems easy—almost oversimplistic. However, putting this philosophy into practice has proven to be challenging. In my experience, distinguishing the things in life I can control from those I cannot is, in itself, no easy task.

More often than not, we think we are in control when what we actually have is the illusion of control. We like to believe that we are conscious and rational beings, but experience teaches us otherwise. Our subconscious, which often overrides rational thinking, is far more powerful than we care to admit. We are not driving—we are being driven.